The Bachelor's Most Shocking Finale EVER--Thoughts?

I heard about the conclusion to The Bachelor--the guy dumped the girl he picked on national TV for the other girl. Have you been following this season? Is this guy a real jerk, really stupid, or really wanted to create the most shocking After the Rose ever? Tell me what his deal is.

Update: So I read the People Magazine article about this. I am HORRIFIED. Here are a few excerpts:

"The single dad, 32, proposed to an overjoyed Melissa, 25, in the two-hour finale. But on After the Final Rose, which was shot six weeks later, he gave her the boot and confessed he still had feelings for Molly, 24, who agreed to give him another chance."

--First off, why would a 32-year-old single dad pick a 24-year-old? Don't they all still go to clubs and shit and barf on toilets? No? Just me then? I smell ageism.

“I didn’t say something right away because I wanted to figure out what was going in inside of me,” he says. “There was part of me that wanted things to work out with Melissa so bad. But the whole other piece was I had these crazy feelings for Molly.”

Finally, Jason says, he could not deny the truth: “Melissa and I just have different ways of communicating. We’re not right for each other.”

--So why did you PROPOSE to her?? What is this shit??